Many men will not get help until their wives have discovered their secret & issue them an ultimatum.

Many women do not realize that the road to healing is often longer & harder than both of them could imagine.

The media has capitalized on porn in the way they replace real people with porn in advertising/TV. An image on a video or picture isn’t real to be able to praise, criticize, respect, love, etc., so these pictures are a false security to men.

Women whose husbands/boyfriends are involved in porn often believe that their feelings do not matter to their porn-addicted loved one.

Women have told porn-addiction counseling resources that their husbands/boyfriends attempt to play the blame shifting game with such comments as, “If you had done this or that, I wouldn’t feel the need to use pornography.”

Many men will say, “You are just insecure, all men do it.” Shifting the blame for his wife’s own damaged self-esteem onto her. Really what they are doing, is drilling a hole in your heart.

A male will loose confidence and will begin to withdrawal from spiritual ness in the home and in a church, if he belongs.

The guilty man will often withdraw from activities and relationships due to strong guilt. Men with consistent, sexual obsession will hide and retreat.

The sadness men feel is a sorrow that drives them farther away from meaningful relationships and deeper into a selfish, self-absorbed way of life.